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Waiting for Spring

At a snail’s pace spring is . . . slowly . . . creeping . . . into view. It came and then it went, and now it’s coming back, veiled in fog and mystery. When will it really come to stay? I keep telling myself it’ll be here soon enough and I’ll fondly think on winter, perhaps even with with a wistful sigh. (After writing a few posts on contentment you’d think I’d have this whole patience thing down pat, right?) While I’ve been waiting for spring to arrive, you’ve probably guessed we’ve been busy. Here’s an update on what we’ve been up to:

New Prints—I have some new prints in my shop! “Adventure Awaits” and “Story-time with Mama” stretched me a bit.

Daisy and Rose

Watercolor should be light and more free-flowing. I err on the side of being too dense, so that’s definitely something I want to work on. I also over-planned them both, but “Daisy and Rose” was very spontaneous and I think I like it more than the other two combined.

Painting—After a few years of neglect, it was time to break out the water-soluble oils. I love how small and detailed watercolor can be, but I’m becoming quickly fascinated by the bold, impressionistic brush strokes of water-soluble oils.  I also appreciate that they clean up with water!

I’m cooking up some ideas for more prints, and I’m curious—what are your thoughts on black and white? I love working with black and white because it not only frees me from my color theory insecurities, but allows me to focus on line and value. Think E. H. Shepard and Doré.

Also, I’d like to write more about art and aesthetics . . . but we’ll see.

Robe á l’Anglaise a la Polonaise—Several weeks ago when we started planning to attend Liberty Day, we thought it’d be a great excuse to finally start building our historical wardrobe. Emily Rose and I settled on J.P. Ryan’s Robe á l’Anglaise pattern. (Hopefully there will be pictures soon.) I was happily surprised at how easy the patterns were to follow. We spent about two weeks sewing and finished the hems and ruffles in the car on the way to Illinois where we attended. . .

Liberty Day—We attended Liberty Day (March 35-36), and wow, was that not a wonderful event?? The whole week was filled with sweet fellowship. The music, the meeting of new friends and catching up with old friends, and the talks and dramas and dancing made for a fabulous weekend.

Dr. Joe Morecraft and Phillip G. Kayser gave several excellent talks on the decline of America after the signing of the Declaration of Independence. Some of the frayed edges of my history gaps joined into a more comprehensive understanding of America’s philosophical and religious history. Exactly what I’ve needed, and I can’t wait to learn more.

Quilts—Years ago I started a very basic quilt, but I’m just now finally putting it together. I’m discovering that I don’t know as much about quilting as I thought I did! There are worlds of detailed knowledge I didn’t even realize existed, but I’m very blessed to have an Aunt who is an experienced quilter.

Quiet winter days

I delight in the quiet winter days. January, February, even March, have a unique sweetness to them. Slow-paced and reflective. Miraculous in complexity. Poetic in simplicity.

Last evening Bently wanted to go for a walk, a walk that would require more than just standing at the back door, singing to keep warm until he was ready to come back. Yes, a good long walk to let out both of our pent-up energy, boots and all. We walked down the sidewalk, skirted a snowdrift, passed the barn and woodpile, wove around the cyprus hedge chasing two sparrows, under the oak tree, and to the garden.

Once we reached the garden, Bently began to stiffly prance, then stopped short. He balanced his frozen front paws above the snow and begged to be rescued. I scooped him up and carried him the short distance to the back door where we shook off the snow and were welcomed into the warmth of the kitchen.

Winter is the season I hear people begrudge the most. As a little girl I loved it—snow angels, snow men, snow sculptures; everything snow. We would send “notes” to airplanes by writing gigantic messages with our tracks in the snow-laden back field. Adventures of crafting the pristine snow into works of child art were the epitome of winter joy, the coziness afterwards you could enjoy only if you braved the elements and returned victorious.

But as I’ve grown to realize the inconvenience of it all (you know, the icy roads, shoveling driveways, layering in static-y sweaters. . .) it’s become very easy to complain. I don’t particularly care to get my socks soaked from endless hours of snow-moving, plus lots of other people seemed bothered by it all, so why don’t I just join in and complain, too?

But I try to resist. I weakly (and pridefully and humbly) resist complaining. Pridefully because it’s my birth season: akin to heritage, you would never hear an American disown that he was part Irish. Humbly because just look at it: the Creator of the universe made every snowflake and blanketed every woodland scene and city scape, offering you a look at the world in a new way. It’s beautiful, it’s gloriously breath-taking, He made it for us, and I dare not complain.

Will another Winter slip before I take time to appreciate it’s splendor? On my deathbed I don’t want to remember life as standing at the back door complaining about the weather and then turning indoors to breathe stale, dead air. If you knew there was a letter from a  dear friend waiting for you in the mailbox but you had to journey through the snowdrifts to get it, would you venture out into the cold? Well, each and every snowflake is a letter, a teeny-tiny letter of your Savior’s love for you that proclaims His glory and creativity.

So on this quiet winter day, I think I’ll go on another walk with Bently. And I’ll carry him home as we breathe in the bracing cold air . . . and revel in the sparkling, wispy drifts of snow made for His glory, and for us.

Joy to the World!

Merry Christmas, my friends!

Merry Christmas from BreezyTulip's Studio

May you all have a joyous time with you families! I pray that the Lord richly blesses you in the coming year. Remember to honor Him in all you do and advance His Kingdom! Only what is done for the Lord will last.

A Poem for the Diligent Daughter

We recently bought a book of poetry called, “It Can Be Done”—a collection of vigorous and empowering verses that inspires men and women to be the sturdy and virtuous people God created us to be.  While many of the verses . . .

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The Invisible Hope Chest

I was recently discussing with some dear friends the subject of stay-at-home-daughters and time.  We talked about all the things we hope to learn and skills we want to have before entering marriage.  Beyond the basic skills of cleaning the home, caring for children, sewing, cooking wholesome meals and decorating cakes, there is a vast world of other useful skills that stay-at-home-daughters have time to learn.

As young women not yet married, we have the responsibility to become as well-rounded and useful as we can be.  Right now you probably don’t have the full care of running the home—this is an excellent opportunity to prepare yourself for the rest of your life.  The more helpful skills we acquire, the more useful, the more of a blessing we will be to our future husbands and families.

Think of these skills as an Invisible Hope Chest.

Your husband could have any kind of job: mechanic, business owner, economics professor, etc.—are you studied in many areas to be able to help him in whatever his calling may be?  Your family may someday have special diet issues—would you know enough about nutrition to accommodate those needs?  Could you start a homestead or home business from scratch and live self-sufficiently?  Do you plan to home-educate your children?  Are you collecting excellent books for them to read?  How do you plan to raise them to become God-fearing and useful men and women?

There is a host of other things to learn as well.  Systematic theology (there’s enough there to keep you constantly in awe for the rest of your life!), finances and banking, how to keep everything in the home running smoothly together, history, English, a foreign language, herbal medicine, science, home birth, and even some carpentry skills will be found quite useful.  And how are your communication skills?

An addendum (March 2012): I heartily endorse physical hope chests, and believe that they can be valuable assets. What they contain should be useful and beautiful; if anything, practical. But collecting physical items is easy when compared to building character, cultivating useful skills, and working on our relationships with the Lord and our families. These should always take higher priority.

How are you filling your invisible hope chest?  Perhaps you haven’t started on it yet, but what would you like to fill it with?

The True Idea of a Home

I’ve been reading J.R. Miller’s book The Family (formerly Home-making) and have been drinking in its beauty and wisdom. I highly recommend this book to every Christian who desires to bring honor to the Lord in their entire lives and learn how to better serve their families. This following quote is from the chapter, “The Parents’ Part.”

“But the true idea of a home is that it is a place for growth.  It is a place for the parents themselves to grow – to grow into beauty of character, to grow in refinement, in knowledge, in strength, in wisdom, in patience, gentleness, kindliness, and all the Christian graces and virtues. It is a place for children to grow – to  grow into physical vigor and health and to be trained in all that shall make them true and noble men and women.

“. . . A true home set up and all its life ordered for the definite purpose of preparing and sending out human lives fashioned into symmetry, filled with lofty impulses and aspirations, governed by principles of rectitude and honor and fitted to enter upon the duties and struggles of life with wisdom and strength.”

– J.R. Miller, The Family

Happy Birthday, Daddy!

I love my Daddy so much! I am so glad he’s my father, protector, and provider.

God has worked greatly in his life (rebel-turned-reformer), but I only know him as the kind, loving, and hard-working leader he is. He’s always been praying for his family, leading us in studying God’s Word, and made sure we were safe and protected from harm.

When we were little, Emily and I loved to dance with him as he held our hands and we stood on his feet.

In the summer we liked to go swimming at a local reservoir. When I was little, one of my favorite parts was when I got to hold onto his back as he swam. He’d tell me to hold my breath, we’re going under! and I’d squint my eyes, imagining I was riding on the back of a giant sea monster.

He’s even joined us in science projects like dissecting owl pellets and cow eyeballs!

And he’s taught us a great many different things, from walking on stilts and mowing the lawn, to studying God’s Word and praying to our Heavenly Father.

Thank you Daddy for being such a great father! Happy birthday, and may God continue to richly bless you in everything!

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My Secret Chocolate Chip Cookie Recipe

This used to be my very own secret recipe. . . but then I started sharing it, so now it’s really no secret. Actually, the original recipe was from a friend, but the first time I made it I messed it up, and voila! They turned out well and are quite fabulous, if I may say so. (This is the recipe I used for the cookies in this post.)

In a large bowl mix:
– 1 cup Crisco oil
– 3/4 cup brown sugar
– 3/4 cup granulated sugar
– 1 tsp. vanilla
– 1 tsp. water
– 2 eggs

In a smaller bowl mix:
– 2½ cups flour
– 1 tsp. soda
– 1 tsp. salt

Combine both mixtures and add one 12 oz. pkg. of semi-sweet chocolate chips. Use a small scoop to place them on lightly greased sheets, and bake at 375º for 8-10 minutes. Be sure you take them out of the oven just before the edges turn golden. Yields approx. 60 cookies?

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And don’t forget to share them!

Touches of beauty in { and outside } the home

Mrs. Fuentes wrote an excellent post on home culture, and it made me reflect on what I remember as a little girl, and how the home culture that my mother made affected me. I particularly thought about our backyards, and how much they were a part of our lives and homes.

My memories are filled with the foliage from the backyards, fields and woods I played in. Anything living and green in or near our homes has had a small, special nook in my heart, where I’ve kept fond memories of inspiration and delight collected over the years.

A vegetable or flower garden has also been a source of delight: there is so much beauty and wisdom to glean here.  And the eagerness to help Momma poke marigold seeds into starter trays, or pulling baby weeds from the freshly rained-on earth, had almost as much influence on my lifelong affections as the books I savored.

The sunlight on the trellis reminded me of something so simple: The trellis next to the garage, with its honeysuckle trickling upward, is a full leafy vine, and plain most of the year. But just after summer comes, all the little yellow and white ladies’ gloves shower down. At night when I walk the dog in the moonlight, a soft breeze will waft by with a sweet and gentle aroma from the tiny flowers. Our backyard really is that beautiful, and as much a part of our homes as the cozy rooms inside.

“There is nothing in all the influences and surroundings of the home of tender childhood so small that it does not leave its touch of beauty or of marring upon the life. . . . Wherever a child grows up it carries in its character the subtle impressions of the home in which it lives.” – J.R. Miller, in Home Making

Truly worthwhile

“How can anyone dare to suggest or say that working at the huge task of making a home and carrying on through the years and years of ups and downs is not one of the very few truly worthwhile ways to spend our energies and gifts in human life?”
— Susan Schaeffer Macaulay, For the Family’s Sake

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